No unbelief made him (Abraham) waver concerning the promise of God, but he grew strong in his faith as he gave glory to God, fully convinced that God was able to do what he had promised. That is why his faith was “counted to him as righteousness.” But the words “it was counted to him” were not written for his sake alone, but for ours also. It will be counted to us who believe in him who raised from the dead Jesus our Lord, who was delivered up for our trespasses and raised for our justification. Therefore, since we have been justified by faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ. Through him we have also obtained access by faith into this grace in which we stand, and we rejoice in hope of the glory of God. Not only that, but we rejoice in our sufferings, knowing that suffering produces endurance, and endurance produces character, and character produces hope, and hope does not put us to shame, because God’s love has been poured into our hearts through the Holy Spirit who has been given to us. (Romans 4:20–5:5)There is a line between faith in God to do what I ask, and faith in Him to do His will. I can ask for what I want done, but if it is not part of His plan, that prayer bounces off the ceiling or seems like it. The answer could be “Wait” or “Not yet” but how can I know for sure?
One thing I do know is that telling God what to do does not work very well. It can have a hint of “I know better than You” in it, a ridiculous and prideful assumption. The more I know about the wisdom and power of God, the more I see how foolish I am to simple assume I know what to pray. Lately, it tends to go something like this: “God, here is the problem. I know what I’d like to happen, but surprise me with Your solution.” His answers are always unpredictable and delightful.
That being said, the Scriptures give instructions about how to pray. I’m to ask for wisdom and clear direction, forgiveness for known sin, boldness to share with others, and the spiritual well-being of myself and others. However, I need to remember that “suffering produces endurance, and endurance produces character, and character produces hope” so be cautious when asking God to remove suffering. For myself or others, that could mess with growth that God wants to produce. In other words, I need to know the differences between my will and God's will. For this, it is vital to be in His Word:
For the word of God is living and active, sharper than any two-edged sword, piercing to the division of soul and of spirit, of joints and of marrow, and discerning the thoughts and intentions of the heart. And no creature is hidden from his sight, but all are naked and exposed to the eyes of him to whom we must give account. (Hebrews 4:12–13)I cannot always discern my bad attitudes but God can — and does — if I keep reading. This study of “therefore” has discerned intentions that I was totally unaware of and helped me confess my selfishness.
Jesus, You never fail to amaze me in how You use suffering to produce growth — and to change the way I pray for myself and others!