Showing posts with label spiritual growth. Show all posts
Showing posts with label spiritual growth. Show all posts

November 26, 2025

The purpose of Suffering…

Since Piper’s devotional is copyrighted, I cannot paste today’s reading here, but am tempted — because it is so helpful. I try to tell others the value of suffering and Piper does a better job! He has never heard anyone say, “The really deep lessons of my life have come through times of ease and comfort.” I agree, and I know by experience that any growth I experience comes by learning the depth of His grace and mercy during suffering.

Jesus is the best example. “Although he was a son, (and sinless) he learned obedience through what he suffered.” (Hebrews 4:15; 5:8) This learning is not like mine where I must learn to obey rather than not, but that He experienced the depth of being yielded to His Father by what He suffered. I do too.

Paul is another example. He said:

Though I myself have reason for confidence in the flesh also. If anyone else thinks he has reason for confidence in the flesh, I have more: circumcised on the eighth day, of the people of Israel, of the tribe of Benjamin, a Hebrew of Hebrews; as to the law, a Pharisee; as to zeal, a persecutor of the church; as to righteousness under the law, blameless. But whatever gain I had, I counted as loss for the sake of Christ. Indeed, I count everything as loss because of the surpassing worth of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord. For his sake I have suffered the loss of all things and count them as rubbish, in order that I may gain Christ and be found in him, not having a righteousness of my own that comes from the law, but that which comes through faith in Christ, the righteousness from God that depends on faith— that I may know him and the power of his resurrection, and may share his sufferings, becoming like him in his death… (Philippians 3:4–10)
Another example given is Samuel Rutherford (1600-1661), a Scottish minister who suffered because he went against tradition and error in the church and given the death penalty for treason. However, he was already facing death with a disease. He said this:
"I have a summons already from a superior Judge and judicatory, and I behoove to answer my first summons; and, ere your day arrives, I will be where few kings and great folks come.”
In prison, he continued to write enduring letters that conveyed his delight in the glory and all-sufficiency of Christ. He said, “I go to my King’s palace at Aberdeen; tongue, pen, and wit cannot express my joy.” Others said this man was “impatient of earth, intolerant of sin, rapt into the continual contemplation of one unseen Face, finding his … happiness in its returning smile.  His glory was his absorption in Christ. He went to sleep with Christ as his pillow; he awoke in Christ.”

Rutherford also said this: 
If God had told me some time ago that He was about to make me as happy as I could be in this world, and then had told me that He should begin by crippling me in all my limbs, and removing me from all my usual sources of enjoyment, I should have thought it a very strange mode of accomplishing His purpose. And yet, how is His wisdom manifest even in this! For if you should see a man shut up in a close room, idolizing a set of lamps and rejoicing in their light, and you wished to make him truly happy, you would begin by blowing out all his lamps; and then throw open the shutters to let in the light of heaven.
My example these days is our granddaughter, also ‘crippled in all her limbs, and removed from all her usual sources of enjoyment’ yet so joyful in her hospital ‘prison’ that being with her in her deeply affects me too.

PRAY: Lord, Piper says “O how I pray that when God, in his mercy, begins to blow out my lamps, I will not curse the wind” and I must pray that too, for Christians I know who suffer, but also for myself. Pity parties are no fun at all. Only the joy You give can overcome the crippling power of feeling sorry for myself when suffering comes my way, and only You can use it for great good and for Your glory.


November 23, 2023

From selfishness to submission

 

One preacher described spiritual growth in seven stages, first like a honeymoon, then eventually a realization of having much sin to deal with finally being formed into the image of Christ and becoming consistent in worship and obedience. Another says there are five stages. MacArthur describes three stages using Jacob’s life as an example. He calls those stages: a stolen blessing, a conditional commitment, and a sincere supplication.

God intended to bless Jacob however his name describes the first part of his life. Jacob means “trickster,” “supplanter,” or “usurper.” In his younger years he lived up to that name, tricking his father into blessing him instead of his older brother, Esau. (See Genesis 27). Then he fled from his angry brother and spent fourteen years taking care of sheep for his Uncle Laban.

Even as he traveled towards Laban’s house, God appeared to him in a dream and giving him the covenant promises made earlier to his grandfather, Abraham, and then to his father, Isaac. Jacob’s response is revealing:

Then Jacob made a vow, saying, “If God will be with me and will keep me in this way that I go, and will give me bread to eat and clothing to wear, so that I come again to my father’s house in peace, then the Lord shall be my God. (Genesis 28:20–21)

I can remember in my early Christian life trying to bargain with God and praying words like, “If You will do . . .  then I will do . . .” and finally realizing God will bless me without me trying to bribe Him, but like Jacob, I had to be humbled and realize that His blessings are not about my performance, but they also are not something I can dictate. He knows best. How good to be able to say what Jacob finally said:

I am not worthy of the least of all the deeds of steadfast love and all the faithfulness that you have shown to your servant, for with only my staff I crossed this Jordan, and now I have become two camps. (Genesis 32:10)

As he left Laban with his two wives, family and servants plus livestock, the Lord appeared in the form of a man and wrestled with Jacob all night (v. 24). Jacob refused to let Him go until he received a blessing. That was not a selfish request. Jacob finally had a heart devoted to being all God wanted him to be. At that, the Lord changed Jacob’s name to “Israel,” which means “he fights or persists with God.”

At the end of his life, the NT says, “By faith Jacob, when dying, blessed each of the sons of Joseph, bowing in worship over the head of his staff.” (Hebrews 11:21)

He never saw the fulfillment of God’s covenant promises just as Abraham and Isaac before died without seeing that end, yet on his spiritual journey from Jacob to Israel, from selfishness to submission, he learned to trust God and in faith wait for Him to keep His promise.

PRAY: Jesus, I can see all sorts of parallels in my own life and even now am waiting for You to answer certain prayers knowing that I might die before You answer them. However, like Jacob, I am certain that You hear my requests and that You are at work in the lives of the people that I pray for, just like You worked in Jacob’s life. You can bring the most stubborn and selfish people into a yielded relationship with You. Your Word gives much evidence of Your power to change lives. My experience also tells me this is true and I rejoice that nothing is impossible with You. For that, I am deeply grateful.

PONDER: Last night, a dream threatened, another one of those “stop praying” attempts to keep me from trusting God by making my emotions feel as if I’d been in a war zone. God enables me to focus on Him, realizing that my enemy is not flesh and blood, nor is it my imagination, nor vivid and horrible dreams. My enemy is “the rulers, against the authorities, against the cosmic powers over this present darkness, against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly places.” (Ephesians 6:12) and my weapons are “not of the flesh but have divine power to destroy strongholds. I can destroy arguments and every lofty opinion raised against the knowledge of God, and take every thought captive to obey Christ, and be ready to punish every disobedience, when my obedience is complete” (2 Corinthians 10:4–6) all because of Jesus Christ and His power.