I’ve been praying for the salvation of a person I know
because her extreme selfishness is ruining lives. She is oblivious to her
condition and her attitude is a childish ‘I will have my own way’ no matter
what anyone else might want. In other words, I want God to fix this mess for
those reasons.
However, God rebukes my motive for praying. He starts with
this statement and a verse: Every
dimension of life, whether physical or spiritual, is a testimony to God’s
mercy.
Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus
Christ! According to his great mercy, he has caused us to be born again to a
living hope through the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead. (1 Peter
1:3)
When God saves, it is not because anyone is special, more
deserving, or more needy. Nor is it because their sinfulness is interfering
with the faith of others. It is because He sovereignly choses to love and extend
His great mercy to that person.
But God, being rich in mercy, because of the great
love with which he loved us, even when we were dead in our trespasses, made us
alive together with Christ—by grace you have been saved— (Ephesians 2:4–5)
He saved us, not because of works done by us in
righteousness, but according to his own mercy, by the washing of regeneration
and renewal of the Holy Spirit, (Titus 3:5)
As today’s devotional says, God addresses the pitiful
condition of mankind because of His great mercy. Unregenerate people are
totally depraved, dead in trespasses, enslaved to sin, cursed to eternal
damnation, unable to help themselves, and in desperate need of someone to show
them mercy and compassion. That’s the good news of the gospel: God loves sinners
and extends mercy to all.
Of course, we need to be willing to admit we need it, but
that is God’s doing also. We are told to repent yet also told that God grants
it:
God exalted (Jesus) at his right hand as Leader
and Savior, to give repentance to Israel and forgiveness of sins. (Acts 5:31)
The times of ignorance God overlooked, but now he
commands all people everywhere to repent. (Acts 17:30)
Or do you presume on the riches of his kindness
and forbearance and patience, not knowing that God’s kindness is meant to lead
you to repentance? (Romans 2:4)
And the Lord’s servant must not be quarrelsome but
kind to everyone, able to teach, patiently enduring evil, correcting his
opponents with gentleness. God may perhaps grant them repentance leading to a
knowledge of the truth, and they may come to their senses and escape from the
snare of the devil, after being captured by him to do his will. (2 Timothy 2:24–26)
Without Jesus, repentance is not a purely human action. Esau
sold his birthright and regretted his actions, then afterward, “when he desired to inherit the blessing, he
was rejected, for he found no chance to repent, though he sought it with tears.”
(Hebrews 12:17) This was an ‘I’m sorry I got caught’ repentance, not the kind God
wants. His “godly grief produces a
repentance that leads to salvation without regret, whereas worldly grief
produces death.” (2 Corinthians 7:10)
Bottom line: as I pray for this person, I need to ask God for
mercy. He loves sinners and as the OT says, “The
steadfast love of the Lord never
ceases; his mercies never come to an end; they are new every morning; great is
your faithfulness.” (Lamentations 3:22–23)
My prayers need to look more like this: “For your steadfast love is great above the
heavens; your faithfulness reaches to the clouds. Be exalted, O God, above the
heavens! Let your glory be over all the earth! That your beloved ones may be
delivered, give salvation by your right hand and answer me!” (Psalm
108:4–6)
Also, when I pray, asking for godly repentance must be
included. This is not a case of ‘fix it for my comfort’ but a case of ‘turn her
life around, granting repentance that You may be glorified.’
PRAY: Jesus, You always address the needs of my heart first
before You grant the desires of my heart. In this case, my desires were more
about me than the other person, never mind that my concern ought to be that You
are glorified in the answer. I’m thankful for Your great mercy. By it, I repented
and received eternal life and an eternal inheritance. Without Your goodness and
grace, I would be just like that person whose selfishness is so destructive.
PONDER: Mark 10:46–52 tells how a blind man called out for
mercy and received it. When God granted mercy to me, I didn’t call out for it
nor realize how much I needed it, yet He came into my life anyway. For those
who are caught up in ‘me, me, me’ the Lord God knows exactly what to do and how
to demonstrate mercy and His great love and power. I need Him to show me my
part in doing the same.